weird realization!!!

Maybe God wanted us to meet the wrong
person before meeting the right one so
that when we finally meet the right
person, we will know how to be grateful
for that gift. Maybe when the door of
happiness closes, another opens, but
often we look so long at the closed
door that we do not see the one which
has been opened for us. Maybe the best
kind of friend is the kind you can sit
on the couch for just 5mins and realize
that you have opened up your whole life
story to him/her,or perhaps the person
you can call in the middle of the night
to share the happenings and
sometimes even if both of you may never
say a word at eachother for a certain
moment,and yet when your eyes meet you
just smile coz you know exactly what
the other person is thinking. and at
the back of you mind you tell
yourself.wow!that was the best
conversation you have ever had.

Maybe it is true that we do not know
what we have until we lose it, but it
is also true that we do not know what
we have been missing until it arrives.
Giving someone all your love is never
an assurance that they will love you
back. Do not expect love in return;
just wait for it to grow in their
heart; but if it does not, be content
it grew in yours. It takes only a
minute to get a crush on someone, an
hour to like someone, and perhaps a day
or two to love someone, but it takes a
lifetime to forget someone. Do not go
for looks, they can deceive. Do not go
for wealth, even that fades away. Go
for someone who makes you smile because
it takes only a smile to make a dark
day seem bright. Find the one
that makes your heart smile.

There are moments in life when you miss
someone so much that you just want to
pick them from your dreams and hug them
for real.Dream what you want to dream,
go where you want to go, be what you
want to be, because you have only one
life and one chance to do all the
things you want to do. The happiest of
people do not necessarily have the best
of everything, they just make the most
of everything that comes along their
way.
Happiness lies for those who cry, those
who hurt, those who have searched and
those who have tried, for only they can
appreciate the importance of people who
have touched their lives. The brightest
future will always be based on a
forgotten past,you cannot go on well in
life until you let go of your past
failures and the heartaches.
so make love to the present and screw
the past!!!!

Communication Barriers

Controversies surrounds the communication barriers between men and women, boyfriends and girlfriends, husbands and wives. Surely I haven't paid attention to any of them.
Until, I experienced such a anomaly.


So I consulted "The Men's Guide to What Women Really Mean By...


And this is what i found:



You want = You want

We need = I want

It's your decision = The correct decision should be obvious by now.

Do what you want = You'll pay for this later.

We need to talk = I need to complain

Sure... go ahead = I don't want you to.

I'm not upset = Of course I'm upset, you moron!

You're ... so manly = You need a shave and you sweat a lot.

I'm not emotional! And I'm not overreacting! = I'm on my period.

Do you love me? = I'm going to ask for something expensive.

I'll be ready in a minute. = Kick off your shoes and find a good show on T.V.

Am i lookin fat? = Tell me I'm beautiful.

You have to learn to communicate. = Just agree with me.

Are you listening to me!? = Too late, you're dead.

Yes = No

No = No

Maybe = No

I'm sorry = You'll be sorry.

Do you like this recipe? = It's easy to prepare, so you'd better get used to it.

I'm not yelling! = Yes I am yelling because I think this is important.

The same old thing = Nothing

Nothing = Everything

Everything = My PMS is acting up

Nothing, really = It's just that you're such an jerk

I don't want to talk about it = Go away, I'm still building up steam

wondered y?

so as i'm sitting here at home pondering life... and i was looking at the old pics and the diary i rote a year back...thot of sharing it here...

"Have you ever wondered which hurts the most? Saying something and wishing you hadn't, or saying nothing and wishing you had? I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart. If you don't, you might break theirs. Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person? Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't. You can't tell your heart what to do. It does it on its own, when you least expect it, or even when you don't want it to. Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had, but that person was too afraid to let you? Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much for fear that the other person doesn't care as much, or even at all. Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle? We tell lies when we're afraid, afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger. Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump. Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have been, or could have done..."we all take risk, we took them in the past we take them now and we will continue in the future."

lost love is still love

"Lost love is still love. It takes a different form, that's all. You can't see their smile or bring them food or tousle their hair or move them around a dance floor. But when those senses weaken, another heightens. Memory.
Memory becomes your partner. You nuture it. You hold it. You dance with it."

tag

i have been tagged for the first time....thank you sourish
here it goes


1. Name Three Most Valuable Assets?
friends,family and dreams

2. If you have the chance, what would you probably say to your beloved one?
To the world you may be one person,
but to one person you may be the world.

3.If you were to be stranded on a desert island, who are the 3 blog buddies you would take with you?
tht was easy
annie,ashu and sourish :)

4.Where is the place that you want to go the most?
in his arms :)

5.If you can have 1 dream to come true, what would it be?
nly 1 dream....nah i have so mny n i wnt all of dem to cum true..

6. Till now, what is the moment that you regret the most?
no regrets.

7.What are you afraid to lose the most?
i was afraid to loose his love n have lost it.

8.What would you do if you found a briefcase full of money?
would give him all the money so tht he starts his own business (dis is his dream)

(condition : the briefcase contains all 1000rs. notes)

9.If you meet someone that you love, would you confess to him/her?
hmmmm not directly but my actions wud speak...

10.List out 3 good points of the person who tagged you...
talkative...talkative and talkative

11. What are the requirements that you wish from your other half?
Loyal...understanding and loves me...thts it (i dont expect much ;) )

12.Which type of person do you hate the most?
i can never hate nyone....

13.What is your ambition?
to have a happy life and see the ppl around me happy...

14.What is the thing that will make you think someone is a bad person?
who am i to judge

15.Christmas is coming, who do you like to celebrate with?
are u talkin abt next Christmas....pata nhi

16.If you could do one thing different in life, what would it be?
wud invent a medicine to cure heartbreak....n wud share it wid all my friends who r heartbroken :)

17.Are you a shopaholic or no?
yes of course i am a girl....how can such a stupid question be asked to a girl.....???

18.What is your stress buster?
passing the stress to others ;) lol

19. What should be done to people who make such long tags..
tag then 100 times

20.do u believe in love?
no LOVE IS JUST AN ILLUSION

i am breaking the chain....not passing this to nyone on my blogroll... have already read similar tags on their blogs...dnt wnt to irritate dem (dont forget to thank me 4 this....)