weird realization!!!

Maybe God wanted us to meet the wrong
person before meeting the right one so
that when we finally meet the right
person, we will know how to be grateful
for that gift. Maybe when the door of
happiness closes, another opens, but
often we look so long at the closed
door that we do not see the one which
has been opened for us. Maybe the best
kind of friend is the kind you can sit
on the couch for just 5mins and realize
that you have opened up your whole life
story to him/her,or perhaps the person
you can call in the middle of the night
to share the happenings and
sometimes even if both of you may never
say a word at eachother for a certain
moment,and yet when your eyes meet you
just smile coz you know exactly what
the other person is thinking. and at
the back of you mind you tell
yourself.wow!that was the best
conversation you have ever had.

Maybe it is true that we do not know
what we have until we lose it, but it
is also true that we do not know what
we have been missing until it arrives.
Giving someone all your love is never
an assurance that they will love you
back. Do not expect love in return;
just wait for it to grow in their
heart; but if it does not, be content
it grew in yours. It takes only a
minute to get a crush on someone, an
hour to like someone, and perhaps a day
or two to love someone, but it takes a
lifetime to forget someone. Do not go
for looks, they can deceive. Do not go
for wealth, even that fades away. Go
for someone who makes you smile because
it takes only a smile to make a dark
day seem bright. Find the one
that makes your heart smile.

There are moments in life when you miss
someone so much that you just want to
pick them from your dreams and hug them
for real.Dream what you want to dream,
go where you want to go, be what you
want to be, because you have only one
life and one chance to do all the
things you want to do. The happiest of
people do not necessarily have the best
of everything, they just make the most
of everything that comes along their
way.
Happiness lies for those who cry, those
who hurt, those who have searched and
those who have tried, for only they can
appreciate the importance of people who
have touched their lives. The brightest
future will always be based on a
forgotten past,you cannot go on well in
life until you let go of your past
failures and the heartaches.
so make love to the present and screw
the past!!!!

Communication Barriers

Controversies surrounds the communication barriers between men and women, boyfriends and girlfriends, husbands and wives. Surely I haven't paid attention to any of them.
Until, I experienced such a anomaly.


So I consulted "The Men's Guide to What Women Really Mean By...


And this is what i found:



You want = You want

We need = I want

It's your decision = The correct decision should be obvious by now.

Do what you want = You'll pay for this later.

We need to talk = I need to complain

Sure... go ahead = I don't want you to.

I'm not upset = Of course I'm upset, you moron!

You're ... so manly = You need a shave and you sweat a lot.

I'm not emotional! And I'm not overreacting! = I'm on my period.

Do you love me? = I'm going to ask for something expensive.

I'll be ready in a minute. = Kick off your shoes and find a good show on T.V.

Am i lookin fat? = Tell me I'm beautiful.

You have to learn to communicate. = Just agree with me.

Are you listening to me!? = Too late, you're dead.

Yes = No

No = No

Maybe = No

I'm sorry = You'll be sorry.

Do you like this recipe? = It's easy to prepare, so you'd better get used to it.

I'm not yelling! = Yes I am yelling because I think this is important.

The same old thing = Nothing

Nothing = Everything

Everything = My PMS is acting up

Nothing, really = It's just that you're such an jerk

I don't want to talk about it = Go away, I'm still building up steam